Saturday, November 28, 2020

The changed world - 2020



"No matter who we are, no matter how successful, no matter what our situation, compassion is something we all need to receive and give." -- Catherine Pulsifer

Change is a continuous process and part of evolution of humanity and world. Almost one year back, world faced a challenge and in a way united the world (in form of Corona Virus). The impending changes it brought all across the globe has been immense.  This note is largely based on observations from India.

It has impacted almost everyone – to some in small ways (rich people whose profits are little lesser but life is fine) and many others in big ways (who lost business, work, jobs and ways of livelihood and life). However, the pandemic can impact the health of everyone – rich and poor in similar ways. 

The initial phase was of shock and blame game and then the humans came back to what they called – “new normal”. The same greed took over sympathy of earlier pandemic times. People started making money on the sanitizers or masks or availability of ventilators. Some people showed sympathy with poor and helped (very few showed empathy – as empathy is a way of life and not just a show-off). Helping others is way of life and can not be just a photo-opportunity.

For most of the governments across globe – it was also an unprecedented phase where they also struggled in managing the crisis. 

Most schools, universities and educators immediately learnt the way of teaching online. It was easy for young educators and little difficult for the older ones. The job of school heads became more complex. However, more or less the teaching is happening (not sure if students are learning much, though). Now everyone is exhausted – teachers, students, leaders in schools and colleges. However, its going on to just make sure syllabus is completed. There was a news article that a large number of school leaders in UK are resigning as they are feeling too much pressure. Still studies are being conducted on the impact on mental health of kids and educators. After speaking to a small sample – I could gather that all of them are really feeling exhausted and de-motivated.

The so-called e-teaching platforms started selling to parents and kids (this is much more in India). The focus again is on fear of lagging behind (without these you can not be intelligent or get marks). They want to make sure that they make money on the fear of losing out.

The psychological change is the biggest one – where there is less focus (as most organizations want to make more money – in the “new normal”).  Human is being left to fend for themselves – those who give us revenues and add value, can stay and rest can leave. Some companies are helping the people and many others are showing-off that they are. Large part of companies is not much bothered the human part (Human is just a resource for them). There are so many webinars being organized – like there is no tomorrow. Not sure on what’s the hurry. This is the time to practively manage own-self and help others in whatever way we can. Its not easy - but its not difficult too (just that one has to think beyond self). Relationships have been impacted in a big way - as humans are confused on how to act or think, at times.

Political people are using this time to settle own scores – they spread fear when needed; make changes to suit them (mass rallies in Bihar, India are one example). The information is suppressed and lies are spread.

Medical staff and resources are stretched to a level like never before. They request and plead with public to follow rules (masks and social-distancing) – but people follow examples set by the leaders. People want to live the same life as before – festivals are important, birthdays are important, marriages are important – but health of self & others is not so important (there is a myth that the virus can not impact us). People are just moving around and meeting people without any purpose (as if this time will not come again). The civic ways of managing self and caring for others are hardly seen.

Vaccine is the next step – where the clarity is not available at the moment and also false promises are passed-on to public. In India, it was also used to ask for votes in Bihar. Anything which is scarce, may lead to chaos initially. There will be preference for the privileged class and poor people chances will be towards the end.

The impact of this change will last for atleast 10-12 years for a large part of population and for some it could just be few weeks (as soon as they get own vaccine). The loneliness, stress and mental discomfort has impacted a lot of people. There is sudden emergence of so-called counsellors, mental health specialist, happiness guides (to make money out of the crisis). 

Initially it was felt that this pandemic will transform the world and people to be more compassionate and empathetic. However, it was just a short term dream. Humans by nature have become greedy and individualistic to a large extent. There are people who have become much richer in this pandemic (but they don’t have any desire or will to share the wealth). To suit their convenience they start calling it new-normal. This is not NORMAL. Its a crisis and must be managed like that.

“The purpose of human life is to serve, and to show compassion and the will to help others.” – Albert Schweitzer




Friday, February 28, 2020

The complex world we created!




While growing up in early 1970s and 1980s, we were always amazed by anything new which was introduced to us as kids – be it color television or walkmans or pagers and later in end of 1990s the mobile phones. The technology and communication devices have improved a lot.

We as kids were given enough time to explore life by playing with simple materials in parks and in farms or near the beach for some and there was adequate time for families and friends and community played a greater role. Though there were pressures to study and get more marks and also there was limited jealousy when the neighbor bought a car. However, the difficult times were resolved together by the family and friends and the community at large. There were no malls or gadgets and people mixed with each other.

Having witnessed riots and student agitations and some disasters closely in India – gave me conviction that together as community is always better than individualistic wins.

The last 20-25  years have seen a dramatic rise in availability of technology and comforts (which money can buy). However, in name of development the worrying and noticeable challenges which emerge or remain now include the following:

  • The families and friends are more distanced by the technology (rather than bringing them together) – human connect is slowly been taken away by emojis
  • The pressure on children in societies like India have increased more
  • They are being taught the way we were taught 30-40 years back and still the focus remains on marks – rather than learning (some countries and regions like Europe developed the education systems to suit the learners needs and created advanced and child-friendly learning practices). In countries like India focus has remained on only assessments.
  • The materialistic world has taken over the need to have minimalistic or realistic needs
  • Greed and fear has transformed humans to become more & more selfish – so much so they widely abused the environment to make “money” (not realizing basic life is getting compromised). People are shown fear of God - rather than showing Love for God.
  • The complexities have created more mental diseases (in addition to complex and newer diseases – like Corona virus, HIV etc)
  • Gap between poor and rich have been increasing
  • For a normal human being –its becoming more difficult to live and survive as life is becoming more complex for them (both technological and societal). Elders struggle with inability of using technologies
  • Loneliness is the biggest problem worldwide
  • The social media which helped humans – have started exploiting human mind by showing what they want to show and controlling the feelings of human (creating more and more divide among people). It has created so much stress for people rather than helping.
  • Politics have become more dirty and complex and the “so-called” democracies still divide people on caste, religion and languages
  • Human life is cheapest in some countries and societies
  • Human is still struggling for basics in many societies like clean air, clean water and hygienic food. People are becoming helpless and more and more people die because of pollution in large cities in countries like India (so called 5th economy of world)
  • Nature has been widely destroyed without any logic
  • Trust, Respect and Love is becoming a rare commodity
  • Women & girls still feel unsafe in countries like India
  • Religion is still confused with Spirituality
  • Developed nations want to sell their arms and ammunition than helping developing countries on improving environment and basic life


It does not mean that nothing good is happening in the world. There are many and many good deeds being done by people – which gets clouded by the media and the negativity shown in social media.

The life which was enjoyed in simplicity and humanity has become complex. The race has taken over the desire to be “ME” rather than “WE”.

I really wish and pray for a better, simpler and loving world where there is mutual trust, respect and love – inspite of differences and diversity. I wish for that simpler world where human connect is better cherished and respected. In 2020, life of more than 40 people should not be lost in a large city like New Delhi by actions and spoken words of weird and shrewd politicians (this is not 18th century). Women and girls should have fearless life of equals.

Artificial intelligence can not help. Smart phones can't help. These are helpful tools - but should not be allowed to control humans.

When I write such articles – people think I am scaring them by showing the dangerous world. However, the intention is to help people and self differentiate by what’s good and what’s not (and choose what to read, listen, hear in social media) – finding true happiness for self; giving joy to others and doing something meaningful – so that the world we leave for our future generation is better !

I am still hopeful !